tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586752051437993829.post4218630390679206234..comments2023-05-17T07:58:38.260-05:00Comments on Surviving Single + 1: It's not a tumor...or is it?SS+1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01490090953660097307noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586752051437993829.post-47626469982489870402013-09-12T09:25:56.768-05:002013-09-12T09:25:56.768-05:00Hi Lifting What?,
I suppose I should do a better j...Hi Lifting What?,<br />I suppose I should do a better job at explaining his background; he's in a very unhealthy marriage, and is celebrating his 11-year anniversary this month. He has a 4 and 7 year old, and my gut is SCREAMING he hasn't said a word about wanting a divorce to his wife. Why do I call his marriage unhealthy? Because I know first hand he admitted to having a 2-year affair roughly five years ago...he confessed, but has since resumed an online dating profile and has met a few people. His side of the story is him and his wife are "out of love" because too many hurtful things have been said by both. My instincts are shouting that he's extremely co-dependent, and to run for the hills (which I'm in the midst of doing).<br /><br />Thank you so much for your comment!! SS+1https://www.blogger.com/profile/01490090953660097307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586752051437993829.post-64344246408153559132013-09-12T09:16:45.195-05:002013-09-12T09:16:45.195-05:00Also: Unfriend him :) From Facebook. Don't tor...Also: Unfriend him :) From Facebook. Don't torture yourself or self-punish waiting for him to pop up and like something. Unfriend. With a quickness.Fabulously Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18415426705611682839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2586752051437993829.post-21856129767419404852013-09-12T09:14:36.180-05:002013-09-12T09:14:36.180-05:00You don't share a lot in regards to his backgr...You don't share a lot in regards to his background.<br /><br />Is he married but separated? Or is he full on still married.<br /><br />If he is still married then I would say you should value yourself more than being someone's number two..these things so so rarely end well. So often so many people get hurt. Be careful. Tell him that once he has his own place and left his wife, you are willing to entertain it ;)Fabulously Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18415426705611682839noreply@blogger.com